Yes, domestic beasts in form of human being are threatening the
peace of our homes .The children are their
first prey .For even trivial childhood
display of their usual hide and seek ,fight and truce ,and return to immediate peace accord among them are well-known principal truths of their ongoing growth ,part and parcel of civilization and now modern socialization Sadly the
parents are quick to shoot their 21st
inculcated slap missiles on their cheeks .Now one comes across news of thrusting
them on floors and beds. These are their sudden outbursts of their uncultivated cum ill transformed innate animal ways of life
,a folly believed to ensures unhindered
growth and guarantee of security of the self respect of the children invaded by the other child for example . Who
are those so called self transforms: a product of good family orientations,
good university, MBA school of thoughts, ,high salaried ones, owners of
sufficient cars and the insane
individuals ?
The wolf population is on the
increase and has stepped in to our family confines. They are husbands wives,
mothers and others. They get out of control on issues which is the test of
their parenthood ,family status ,civilized behaviors in odd moments. Their
unwanted brutality hurts the kids , not me
alone but provokes and drive them towards
family and officialdom to undesirable
decisions .They inflict injuries which may remain dormant as of now and settle
deep in to children s sub conscious to
find ugly expression in the same form and amount rather worst than that in days to come.
I am pained to narrate the very innocent holy scene combated by the
affected parent as if their child is in
real peril .It is an episode of an ugly ,sub
standard menial ways of which I was an eye witness. What
prompted me to pen this piece of experience? It emanated from my long
experience and meaningful experiments with my own kids and group of children of
men in tops and low strata Indian society
.
The two babies live under
the same roof of a house , and are blood relation off springs but with different parental bearing and possessing different DNA ?A five
and half year old child in an early morning (holy day) takes up his Art copy
and begins to color the un colored sketch
opposite the colored one (pine apple)
.He completes and rushes to seek applaud from his grand father available nearby
enclosure who applauds his work in
presence of the second child 4-5 years studying in the same school .After
receiving cheer of well done ,he moves to his brother who is younger but
equally gifted with same amount of childhood and wisdom .He examines his
drawing work and brings at once to his notice that a small unnoticeable portion
was not colored. The first child disliked his observation and the quarrels begins.
It turned in to scuffle culminating in
to bite of his palm by the second one followed by screaming .The two kept on repeating their stands in my
presence. The first threw away his art copy and began forcing the second to withdraw his words which he refused and my
intervention had no effect .Show of muscle power began ,The two tried their best
to pin the other down .The first child is taller and was escorting a little catchy head hair and
second one jumps to hold it in his hand .The first one had always been defeated on account of this hair
style. The first child perhaps knew this and succeeded in saving his honor of
defeat. The first one still in action of scuffle, defense and attack found him in trap and second child was quick in
biting his palm .
Finding scuffle ending
dangerous end called the members of the family by raising an alarm to rescue them. By the time mother arrived,
her child has begun crying more and more . She was quick to give the attacker hard
hard slaps on his rosy cheek . it
resulted in to his inconsolable sobbing .I realized my folly to call only the fools to resolve it.
In a moment the father too arrived
the scene of incident and he was more
furious than his wife .He besides shouting, threatened the child accused and
his tone were invalid, lousy and wild that it must have shaken the body and heart of
the child and the world war started among all the alleys. My turbulent emotion
and mind went on and on till I decided to share this with you. why?”
Mother of an aggrieved baby,
was in furry of anger and knew not the impact of her slap which the child will
have .It will ,I believe ,continue haunt her peace of mind for a long time .Repentance
and regrets make you weak emotionally and morally .(2)The attacking child in his five
years contact with her in family had the first such shot given to him. It must have
torn away his trust in her. The bonds between the two will have cracks if
repeated this crack in future ,will bring down the house of bonds in to despair.(3)The
amount of fright presented by father in
his wildest form towards child ,first will spoil father who may become victim
of personality crisis later(4)In spite of handsome earning his detachment from day to
day moral strengthening shall lead to his personal life full of crisis with intellectual ailments. Patience is
sun rays and gratefulness of a moon; its phase and coolness. The two solar
powers have to pass to through phases of ups and downs since time immemorial .
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